Home Improvements Help Us Remodel Our Selves.

By: Chris Warren

Homeowners who hire a contractor for every little job cannot understand the pride and satisfaction of completing a do it yourself project that will make a house more enjoyable or increase resale value. Some of us take on a lot of home improvements that we probably could afford to contract out but choose to do ourselves anyway because there is a certain “it factor” that makes these tasks an attractive challenge.

Most jobs are very simple in regards to the mechanics of the work required. Like all things though, the real world experience is often much different. I recently installed some exterior lighting on my house. The basic procedure is easy: Run some wire. Screw light to side of house. Connect wires at both ends. Done. It all looks so easy in theory!

The headaches come in when you have to run the wires through walls or other not so easy to reach places, or when the hardware that came with the light is not compatible with your application, or when you are trying to make something both functional and not look like sloppy crap nailed to the side of the house.

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My dad has been doing his own home improvements longer than I’ve been alive, and he’s really good at it. He holds himself to a very high standard of craftsmanship, and after he completes a job, he will scrutinize every little detail and find something he would have done differently. It’s a learning process that I’ve adopted myself with very good results. Wise men never think they know it all.

In my circle of friends I’m known as the guy who always has a tool in his hand and hardly ever pays others to do things for me. Doing my own home improvements has the unexpected benefit of teaching me patience and discipline. All jobs look easy in concept. In reality, none go exactly as planned with no setbacks. The principle transfers to other areas of life. Having a plan is great, but there must be enough built in flexibility to address the inconvenient reality that life events seldom fit exactly into our preconceived plans.

Once someone is programmed for achievement, it is very difficult for them to set boundaries of when they will give their best effort and when they will not.

Home improvements are a perfect metaphor for how the real world works: I had the knowledge and tools needed to install an exterior light. I had a visualized plan of how I wanted to attain the goal. Once I began the task, I ran into unplanned setbacks. Some of these delays were due to my own oversight (drilling two holes when I only needed one). Others were out of my control (bad weather, incompatible hardware). Nothing gets done by getting angry at myself or cursing the weather. Keep moving, solve problems, find a way to get to the end.

One reason why athletes who are successful in their sport also tend to be successful in other areas is because they redirect the drive and motivation from the playing arena into their entire life. The same could be said for military people. Once someone is programmed for achievement, it is very difficult for them to set boundaries of when they will give their best effort and when they will not. A properly trained athlete or soldier is in “on mode” all the time, even years after they are no longer active in sports or the military.

Home improvements such as hanging a light do not rank high on the glorious achievement scale, but the commitment to complete them with skill and pride is very meaningful to those who spend countless weekends and vacation days toiling on their homes instead of paying a contractor.

Deeper than money saved is standing back and admiring one’s own finished project and the feeling of independence and empowerment from not having to rely on paid help. Every time I walk past that light I’ll know how it got there: Not from farming the work out to others and handing them a check when it’s done, but from my own determination, sweat and ingenuity. I’ll need all the can-do positive energy I can get when it comes time to replace my hot water heater, which I suspect will be soon.


4 thoughts on “Home Improvements Help Us Remodel Our Selves.

  1. I would not know where to start with doing home improvements, Chris. However, I get exactly the same feeling you have described in your post when sorting out a problem with my computer. Mind you, I do often get some help along the way from the likes of ‘YouTube’, but at least that’s free.

    1. Oh Hugh, I’m never ashamed to accept help where ever I can get it. If that means YouTube, then that’s fine with me.

      I’ve used YouTube to learn how to do everything from unjamming my iPhone to disassembling a gun to figuring out what’s wrong with the transmission on my truck.

      Thanks for your reply!

  2. Ahh, nothing like the beauty of performing your craft with excellence and precision. It may not come out “perfect” and/or there may be others who you could pay to do a “better” job, but there is nothing like setting a task for yourself, committing to it and then looking at the completed job. You’re right, it holds a lot of good life lessons.

    Love your quote too on not being able to set boundaries on giving a best effort once you’re programmed for it. There’s a lot to be said for learning that when you are young which it sounds like you did from your dad. Well done.

    1. My neighbors frequently comment “wow, you’re always doing something over there.” Most of them call me when they have a plugged drain at 9:00 on Sunday night or other such small emergency. The old cliche “if I have to explain it, you would not understand” definitely applies.

      Thanks for your comments and thanks for stopping by Twenty First Summer.

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